Hello all readers 🙂
Ok so I know we are in the Christmas/Hanukkah/Yule/Kwanzaa/so many others season. And that does not include birthdays and other events that might happen in which you have that fun combination of a gamer in your life and a need or desire to get them gifts.
A lot of people in this situation freak out and decide that there is no way in any of the possible hells that they would get a game item for the gamer in their life. And there are a lot of good reasons not to. I mean do you know the games they like? Do you know what they have currently in their library of games? Do you know what they may already have on order some place? Do you know the difference in the types of games that are out there? Do you know the types of games they prefer (this is actually different than knowing what games they like)? These are questions you need to ask yourself before you go out and buy a specific game. And this is true for any type of gamer. Card games, collectible card games, video games, board games, role playing games, console games, computer games, dice games, and more. And each of these categories have individual categories and then genres to take it even further. So there are a ton of options, and not everyone is in to every kind of game.
So does this mean that you give up and just get them socks? It does not have to, but never underestimate the power of fun socks either. Mmmmm thermal socks that look like Animal from the Muppets (if you can actually find them put them in the comments because I have been looking found regular men’s socks with the Muppets on them but no one seems to do thermals).
The first thing you actually have to do is understand the basics for what the gamer in your life like to play. This will help you break down where you can buy, what you can buy, and if you want to take a leap and grab a real game, or just fall back on a gift card that they will actually use in very short order.
Funny thing is both the gift givers and the gamers usually dread having this conversation. Oh I wont be able to get them what they want… Oh uncle Mephistopheles never gets this shit right…. and so on. And I have to say that if neither the gift giver or the receiver are willing to take a chance and have the bloody conversation, then yeah everyone mucks it up and its socks all around for Xmas once again.
Now then gift givers, you have one responsibility in this conversation. Remember what you are told so you can Google the crap out of it. You do not have to understand the difference between D&D, AD&D, AD&D 2nd edition, or why Xbox games wont run on a Playstation. You just need to remember what it is that they are interested in so you can put in a little research and try to get them something that actually fits what they are in to. I cannot tell you the number of times, as a gift receiver I have been thrilled to get something I already have, that I may not be able to return or trade in or anything else, because someone important to me listened, and took the time to try and get me something that I would really be in to.
Ok gift receivers that means you are going to have to do something too. You are going to have to actually talk. To people who may not play what you play or even give a shit about it. But they want to give you a gift you like, something you will have fun with, and by all that’s unholy they are freaking trying. So be honest, and do you best to use basic terms that they can Google. Tell them you like FPS games on PlayStation. Tell them you like deck building card games. Tell them something, and be honest about it. As a gift giver I have always appreciated when someone actually tells me about the things they like so I can give it a shot.
Now then if you listen and still don’t know what to get someone then you can really get into just giving gift cards and that is ok too. If someone likes table top RPG’s, collectable card games, deck building, and or miniatures, Amazon can really be your friend. Same goes for console games of any kind. If they are into PC games then you might try Steam. If they happen to mention a specific shop they like to go to, then by all means get a gift card or gift certificate there. Because you know they will use it.
Not understanding why someone games, or not understanding why someone doesn’t, is not a big deal. Just take a deep breath, have a conversation, and then take a risk. Or don’t. Socks are always an option. 🙂
Last piece of advice. Gift givers, do not expect your gift to be ripped out of the package and played with immediately. Gift getters, be thankful that someone in your life cared enough to try and get you something you would enjoy and dont be a whiny little shit and focus on what you could have gotten instead. And both of you remember that the honest conversation once had, will make it easier to do this in the future too. Or once again… socks.
A’right. Holiday gifting rant over. I can do something more productive next week.
So gimme the dice, I have to play a longshot on a certain gift, I need that crit hit.